If its a situation of her trying to move on and let go of you, then you should do the same, as hard as it is. Maybe it only seems as if she’s playing with your emotions just because of what you see her do, but in reality, your doing that to yourself. If she seems to be “falling” for someone else, its a hint of needing to let go of something no matter how special it is to you. You can still love her, care for her, but just in a distance. Just fighting yourself back in while her walls are closed on you is just a way of being a bit, “stalkerish” or a creeper. Don’t be the one chasing her, no matter how bad it seems, no matter how bad the guy seem to be. If the guy is bad, and treats her bad, she’ll realize it herself. That’s why we all learn from our mistakes. But sometimes, WE think the other guy is bad, only because we know we want that girl to be with us, but in reality, he’s a good guy too, doing his best to do his part for her, and that’s what SHE sees.
So, just let it go, no matter how hard it is. Keep yourself occupied, with friends, family, and go out and meet new people. You might bump into someone sooner or later that you’ll feel something for. But that’s all up to you also, if you decide to keep your walls closed for anyone else other than her. But it’s something to face, reality, knowing that it might not happen anymore.
-Cyrus Tolentino